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How to Build Unshakable Confidence (Even If You’ve Lost It)

If you’ve ever struggled with confidence, you know how it feels. Self-doubt creeps in, and suddenly, you’re second-guessing your abilities.


But here’s the truth:Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build.


At The FR4MULA, one of the biggest transformations we see in our clients isn’t just their physique—it’s their confidence. If you’ve lost your confidence or want to build it from scratch, this blog will show you how.


What is Confidence?

Confidence isn’t "arrogance." It’s not about pretending to be something you’re not. True confidence is self-trust. It’s knowing that you can figure things out, no matter what.


3 Ways Most People Lose Confidence

1️⃣ They Break Promises to Themselves

Every time you say, "I’m going to work out," but skip it, you lose a little trust in yourself.

2️⃣ They Focus on Failures Instead of Wins

When you only focus on what went wrong, you forget how much you’re actually winning.

3️⃣ They Compare Themselves to Others

Comparison kills confidence. You’ll always find someone "further ahead" than you.



5 Ways to Build Unshakable Confidence

1️⃣ Win Small Every Day

Set 3 small, simple daily goals and crush them. Each win builds momentum and self-trust.

2️⃣ Create Non-Negotiables

Make 2-3 daily habits you’ll do no matter what. These wins build belief in yourself.

3️⃣ Track Your Wins

Write down 3 wins daily. Over time, this "win list" becomes undeniable proof that you’re capable.

4️⃣ Take Action Before You Feel Ready

Confidence doesn’t come from thinking—it comes from doing. Take messy action and adjust later.

5️⃣ Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

Unfollow accounts that trigger comparison. Focus on your own growth.



How The FR4MULA Helps You Build Confidence


At The FR4MULA, we don’t just help you transform your body—we help you transform your mind. Our coaches help you:

  • Build small, daily wins.

  • Create non-negotiable habits.

  • Track your progress every week.


When you see how far you’ve come, your confidence grows automatically.


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